Chance Browne, son of our beloved friends Dik and Joan Browne, recruited Hagar, Hi & Lois and company, to call out a cheery greeting.
I Heart Comics
(Cartoonists’ Get-Well
Wishes)
by Rick Marschall
This column is devoted to my life in comics (so far!) and readers generally expect, as do I, interaction with moldy
strips, vintage collectibles, and half-forgotten masters of the art. But it is
about life too; inescapably recent life, and I hope readers will indulge. Last column
was about a cartoonist I met the afternoon of my high-school prom – actually,
that does seem like ancient history – and this will be a little more
personal than usual.
Six years ago this week my
wife Nancy died, after a lifetime of horrible afflictions including heart
attacks and strokes, kidney failure and dialysis, celiac disease and cancer,
amputations and, at the end, creeping dementia. Oh, and heart and kidney
transplants. A tough lot, which she always faced bravely with few complaints,
and a personal faith that held firm.
The only people who did not
love her were those who had not met her. When we settled in Connecticut, in the
middle of the artists’ colony and cartooning community of Fairfield County, she
became a favorite of the cartoonists’ wives, socially, and not a few of the
cartoonists themselves. Midway, or so, in her health-journey her heart and
kidneys gave out, and she was listed for transplants.
Our old and good friend Dick Hodgins, who I met when I was 12 or 13, was Dik Browne’s ghost on Hagar.
When the word got out among
the cartoonists, hand-drawn get-well drawings flooded her hospital room. During
the 10-week stay, awaiting appropriate “matching” organs; and during several
weeks of recovery, her rooms looked like galleries in a cartoon museum –
hand-drawn, colorful cartoons on every wall. Visitors, doctors, and nurses
gawked and laughed and admired the cartoons. Of course. And the drawings buoyed
Nancy immeasurably.
For me, “well wishes” might
mean that people wish I would fall down a well. I realize that. But with Nancy,
the love of our cartoonist friends showed through with sincere – and splendid –
little masterpieces. I will share a few here.
Five-page Nancy-themed Get Well card, large sheets, from the great Orlando Busino.
As the “hook” for this
little memoir is Nancy’s passing, I will reinforce how our family in general
trafficked in cartoons and humor. It gets you though life, even physically
challenging lives. I hope nobody will be dissuaded by the revelation that Nancy
was a conservative, and not a huge fan of Barack Obama.
So, with that as the
backdrop, I will say that she died on the very day that Obama was sworn in
after his re-election. Nancy had been in a coma for a week, and off
life-support for 24 hours, almost exactly. The television in her room was not
on, of course; but throughout the hospital floor, the inauguration was on every
TV set, and its proceedings, in faint echoes, could be heard by me and my
children, who had gathered from points around America and the world.
Coincidentally, just as
Obama repeated the oath of office… Nancy flat-lined. Scarcely missing a beat,
our son Ted commented, “Mom always said that if Obama got to be president
again, she would just die.”
Laughter, if not the best
medicine, is a great palliative. And cartoons – so often called mere “lines on
paper,” can also be genuine Love on Paper.
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